Sam Harris, Ph.D. — How to Master Your Mind (#342)

Hi Tim — this note is about your interview with BJ Miller (https://tim.blog/2016/04/14/bj-miller/) in April 2016, but I thought I should leave it on your most current episode link in hopes you might see it. At the time the interview came out and I listened to it, my sister was nearing the end of her life; she had been diagnosed with Stage 4 cancer the previous spring. I was her "go-to" during this final year, and it was a profound experience. When I heard the interview, it resonated with me, as you can imagine. What I was thinking about constantly at that time was how things were going to end for my sister — what it would be like and whether I could help her and say the right things when that time came. She had been at home with Hospice help for several months, and we thought that she would be at home until the end, but a little extra care was needed at the eleventh hour, and she went to our local, lovely Hospice Center, where she died two days later. The morning she died, I suddenly remembered something that BJ Miller said in his interview — that at the Zen Hospice Center, they had a tradition of sprinkling the body with flower petals before it was taken away. This could not have been a more perfect and poignant a ritual for my family's farewell to my sister, for whom gardening was a soulful, joyful practice. So in that moment, we took petals from the flowers friends had brought, and we gratefully used the Zen Hospice tradition to honor my sister. I wanted to thank you and BJ for this gift. (I should add that the Hospice here … and perhaps at all Hospice centers? — has a tradition they call the Honor Guard. All staff members on duty line the hallway as the patient and family leave the center. It was lovely.) Experiencing my sister's last year with her was powerful, and I'm now working on a project that came out of that experience; my sister wanted to focus on the positive and that decision probably brought her more time with us in the end, but her desire to avoid talking about dying was tough for us. I realized I had strong ideas about how we could avoid this dilemma, and I'm trying to put them out into the world (love the Death Over Dinner model; my goal is different but related, of course). If you'd like to hear about it sometime, please feel free to email [Moderator: email address removed.]. Meanwhile, thank you again; I have gotten so much meaningful food for thought from your interviews, but it felt important to mention this particular story to you. Take care — Carla A.

All your podcasts are gold, but your podcasts with Sam Harris have had the biggest impact on my life. I'm sure this one is no exception! Much love and gratitude xx

Another excellent podcast! The conversation about consciousness is always fascinating. I would love to add here, the opinion of the Swiss psychiatrist Carl Jung (1875 – 1961), which goes something like this: Long ago we were happy blissful animals living in harmony with nature’s rhythm. When we became humans and developed consciousness we lost the happy state of being for the benefit of having the most powerful tool ever: the human mind. There was a trade-off that we need to understand. We paid a price to get a mind with consciousness of its self. We paid dearly to become civilized. This, according to Jung is the hidden meaning of the fall of man from paradise. This approach was made clear to me when I read the short story “The dog beneath the skin” by Oliver Sacks in the book "The man who mistook his wife for a hat". This short sorry is about a medical student who after ingesting a hallucinogenic drug develops the extra sensitive smell of a dog. His whole existence reverted to a happy animal state, while at the same time losing his ability for proper human efficiency. This lasted for some months. He regained his former state, while acknowledging that he would no longer be able to function in an organized society if he stayed longer like this. My take on this is that basic existential unhappiness is the price we pay for being civilized. Of course, a regular practice of meditation is always beneficial. Thank you

Tim, I am a huge fan. I can't however take anything Sam Harris says seriously when he regularly spews lies and hatred towards my way of life, which is Islam, and that of my fellow Muslims, all 1.6 billion of us. He of course also spews lies about Christianity too. Below is one of numerous things Sam Harris has said that are absolutely FALSE and full of lies. Every single phrase is simply a lie. I am a Muslim living in the West like millions of others. I live in peace and harmony with my Christian, Jewish, Hindu, Atheist and Sikh brothers and sisters. Sam Harris insist on telling you lies about me and my religion. I have never heard Sam Harris actually speak with a Muslim scholar on any of the issues he has been continuously lying about for decades. He makes claims like this all the time with no basis or scholarship behind it. "Throughout Western Europe, Muslim immigrants show little inclination to acquire the secular and civil values of their host countries, and yet exploit these values to the utmost — demanding tolerance for their backwardness, their misogyny, their anti-Semitism, and the genocidal hatred that is regularly preached in their mosques." There are a million examples I could give to show how every phrase is false – but you can do your research yourself. The most remarkable part is that if he had said something similar about Jews, he would be ousted from all institutions and publicly vilified for being anti-semitic. He gets away with his hatred of Muslims and Islam simply because that's become acceptable for a long time now. I have many beautiful atheist friends. They completely and unapologetically stand against Sam Harris for simply adding more HATE into the world by constantly speaking out against literally billions of Christians and Muslims. We don't need more hateful people – we need more loving people in the world – whether they are religious or atheist. Sam Harris is one of the people spreading more hate. I am a Muslim. Like other fellow Muslims, I love all the human beings in the world. Like other religions, we have a few bad apples too – there is no denying that. Our bad apples just tend to make newspapers more money!

Tim great episode with Sam Harriss. The son of Tulku Urgyen Rinpoche (Sam mentions him in the podcast) is teaching in Nepal within a week. You can find more info here [Moderator: link to website removed.] Hope to see you around!

Hi Tim, There is another person that researchers extensively about the topic Sam talked about in this podcast. I would suggest looking at work of Dr Jeffrey A Martin. Its quite remarkable what he achieved with his scientific approach toward the topic. Best Regards

I think that Vipassana meditators are especially suitable for testing anesthetics and dissociatives which interfere with the respiratory system in order to get more real-time consciousness onto the dynamics of ATP production and usage by oxygen consumption. There have been some studies recently regarding that "Math with good posture can mean better scores" and there should be more non-brain localized variables affecting its typical output. There also are a few dusty russian dissertations regarding the usage of psychotropic drugs for somatic disorders and an article in Pubmed (in German) regarding regulation of kidney function by hypnosis. This is what I would like to ask this type of neuroscientist questions about.

Tim I am a young person trying to make decisions for my future career. I am observing the advice you gave to Richard Feloni; Initially prioritizing learning over money and learning transferable skills. I have two questions that I hope you can give me some insight on 1. When you say "prioritize learning over money", would you consider education or skill learning more valuable and why? Podcast I am referencing – https://www.businessinsider.com/tim-ferriss-career-advice-for-20-somethings-2017-11

Dear Sam and Tim! I am still navigating through this …yet! I have to pause and come back because he is moving my brain cells too FAST and some..i just need to understand, research more! Conceptual info. Ultimate thank you from me and Universe!

I'd further finish by saying that Dr. Harris could be an amazing force for good if he actually worked to build bridges with people of faith rather than spreading lies and hatred for them. His outreach with his good endeavors like the meditation app is severely limited due to his severely limited world view. He could learn a thing or two from great atheists like Dr. Stephen Hawking and others.

Salmon — I appreciated your sentiment. And, as a Sam Harris fan……….I would like to simply engage with you in a dialogue, with hope you might see this – and Sam — a little differently. If you really dig into Sam and his philosophy, he is not a person of hate. And, he would agree himself, that spreading hatred is not a good way to lessen suffering in the world — which is one of his missions. His points — often not made well, as per his own admission — can often be taken as "hatred" sounding. When, in fact, his whole point is that people, of all walks of life, religions, creeds, etc, need to have rationale and truthful conversations, without obfuscating reality. Sam has been targeted, unfairly, as an Islamophobe. And, if you look at his life, he clearly is not one. His work with Majid Nawaz is a good starting example. And, there are many others. His biggest problem is often how he expresses what he is trying to say. It comes off hostile (i.e with hatred). Sam's main point about Islam is simple: There are millions of peaceful, loving, assimilating, and kind Muslims. He has nothing against Muslim people — per se. He has a problem with not only Muslim violent extremists (as most loving, peaceful people do)…………..but with the "moderates" such as you, and even me (formerly), for NOT calling a spade a shovel; in an honest way. And, his point is that this lack of an honest calling out of what is "real", is what is still enabling the radial fundamentalist to thrive. It does seem counterintuitive, right? Did not a lot of us grow up thinking: 'if you cannot say something nice — don't say it at all"…………Well. That does not help. And, unfortunately, some people happen to say things that are real and true — yet, say it with such mean-ness and vitriol, that it is impossible for the message to stick. Sam has admitted guilt to this in the past, albeit he is not nearly as bad as others. But. Sam’s message about Islam is simple and not hate filled. Not all religions have the same message. And, like Christianity has done over the course of time in order to make the more violent and hateful Bible passages less dominant in society, Islam also needs more reformers — like Majid Nawaz, Ayaan Ali, and others. And, these reformers need to likely work harder than their Christian counterparts did in the past………………..Why? And, this often where great offense is taken by Muslims. And, I even hesitate to write it here, out of fear of offending you and your religion. In fact, what I am about to write is the fuel that caused the explosion between Ben Afflect and Sam Harris on the Bill Maher show. Sam expressed this in a manner that I presume he may wish he said differently. Yet his point was one of a seemingly clear fact: that the Koran (which is the bottom line basis of ideas for Islam) and the Bible (which is the bottom line basis of ideas for Christianity) make the process of reforming DIFFERENT from one another. Both books have "bad ideas" in them, which need reforming. But, taken on its face alone, and via simple and reasonable reading of both books, any rational person should walk away with a simple understanding: the work needed to reform the more "bad" passages in the Koran is more than in the Bible. There are just more of them to deal with. That fact does NOT make Islam a “worse” religion than Christianity. It just makes it harder to reform………………Hence Sam's ill conceived statement on the Bill Maher show: "That Islam is the motherlode of bad ideas"…………..that does not sound nice. I agree. But. His point was simply that that Koran has more difficult parts to reconcile than other religions. Would you agree with that point – on its face? From your writing, you sound very much like a moderate Muslim practitioner; taking the loving parts of the Koran to heart; dismissing the violent parts. (Just as many Christians do with their religion). I simply ask you consider that fostering the tolerance for Islam around the world may work BETTER if people like you and other reformers would recognize the "negative" parts of your religion thereby enabling more a celebration of the positive parts. That is really all Sam Harris trying to do as well. Versus the "non-recognition" — or even worse, the tacit "approval" by moderates of the negative theology practiced by more conservative sects. Staying quiet and/or not recognizing the negative from within the religion itself can be (and Sam's point that it WILL be) a death knell to the religion as a whole — moderates, unfortunately, included. I hope you see my above point in the spirit of loving people — all people.; all faiths; all religions; Like Sam………..I believe an honest discourse about all things is how we make all things better.