This is a special episode about overcoming mistakes and failure. What do you do when your work is rejected, when the big bet fails, or when the path ahead suddenly disappears? As you’ll hear in this episode, setbacks can often present opportunities, if you know how to look for them.
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Transcripts
- This episode (coming soon)
- All episodes
Show Notes
Connect with BJ Miller:
Connect with Terry Crews:
Connect with Tim McGraw:
- Website | X | Facebook | Instagram | Threads | TikTok | YouTube
- Tim’s appearance on the podcast: 852
Connect with Jessica Lahey:
Connect with Dax Shepard:
- Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard | X | Facebook | Instagram
- Dax’s appearance on the podcast: 480
Connect with Cathy Lanier:
Connect with Janna Levin:
Connect with Boyd Varty:
Recommended Reading, Listening, & Viewing
- BJ Miller: What Really Matters at the End of Life | TED Talk
- One Man’s Quest to Change the Way We Die | The New York Times
- Aprilia Mana — Shiftless Shiver | Motorcyclist
- Brooklyn Nine-Nine | Prime Video
- America’s Got Talent | Prime Video
- Tim McGraw by Tim McGraw
- Not a Moment Too Soon by Tim McGraw
- “Indian Outlaw” by Tim McGraw
- Landman | Prime Video
- CHiPs | Prime Video
- CHiPS (2017) Financial Information | The Numbers
- Parenthood | Prime Video
- Sliding Doors | Prime Video
- 1991 Mount Pleasant Riot | City Cast DC
- Boyd Varty: What I Learned from Nelson Mandela | TED Talk
- The Original Leopard Trackers | Londolozi Blog
Books
- A Beginner’s Guide to the End: Practical Advice for Living Life and Facing Death by BJ Miller and Shoshana Berger
- Manhood: How to Be a Better Man — or Just Live with One by Terry Crews
- Tribe of Mentors: Short Life Advice from the Best in the World by Tim Ferriss
- The Gift of Failure: How the Best Parents Learn to Let Go So Their Children Can Succeed by Jessica Lahey
- The Addiction Inoculation: Raising Healthy Kids in a Culture of Dependence by Jessica Lahey
- The Lion Tracker’s Guide to Life by Boyd Varty
People
- Randy Sloan
- Mert Lawwill
- Terry Jeffords
- Jamie Foxx
- Debbie Millman
- Byron Gallimore
- Sam Elliot
- Billy Bob Thornton
- Scott Borchetta
- Mike Borchetta
- Faith Hill
- Kristen Bell
- Josh Waitzkin
- Renias Mhlongo
- Alex Van Den Heever
- Martha Beck
Timestamps
- 00:00 — Introduction from Tim
- 01:23 — BJ Miller: Making an Impossible Motorcycle Dream Real
- 05:35 — Terry Crews: Why You Have to Take the Shot
- 16:28 — Tim McGraw: Failing on Your Own Terms
- 27:31 — Jessica Lahey: From “Unpublishable” to Bestseller
- 31:48 — Dax Shepard: When Failure Saves You From What You Want
- 38:11 — Cathy Lanier: Rebuilding a Life
- 47:33 — Janna Levin: Life Is the Obstacles
- 54:36 — Boyd Varty: Finding the Next Track When You’re Stuck
Quotations from This Episode
“I love two wheels. I love the gyroscopic lifestyle. I love the feeling of it.”
— BJ Miller
“If I win or if I fail, it’s going to be on my terms. It’s going to be up to me. If I have the opportunity, I have to go for it.”
— Terry Crews
“If it fails, it fails on my terms this time.”
— Tim McGraw
“It’s not that I’m a great writer. It’s that I was humble enough to say, ‘Teach me how to be better. I will take it to heart and I will be able to be objective about it and I will use it and I won’t make the same mistakes again.’”
— Jessica Lahey
“What I know most is that I don’t know what’s best for me.”
— Dax Shepard
“This is not my path. This can’t be my path.”
— Cathy Lanier
“Life is not great for most people, and they have to do a hell of a lot more than not screw it up.”
— Janna Levin
“I don’t know where I’m going, but I know exactly how to get there.”
— Boyd Varty
Want to hear another episode with someone who turned getting unstuck into a life’s work? Listen to my conversation with author and life coach Martha Beck, in which we discussed the amazing and brutal results of telling zero lies for 365 days, how to do a beginner “integrity cleanse,” owning your right to say no, honest alternatives to saying no, finding joy in the body, want versus yearning, the opposite of anxiety, Internal Family Systems, lessons from lion trackers, and much more.


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