Rick Rubin and Mary Karr (#745)

This episode is a two-for-one, and that’s because the podcast recently hit its 10-year anniversary and passed one billion downloads. To celebrate, I’ve curated some of the best of the best—some of my favorites—from more than 700 episodes over the last decade. I could not be more excited. The episode features segments from episode #76 “Rick Rubin on Cultivating World-Class Artists (Jay Z, Johnny Cash, etc.), Losing 100+ Pounds, and Breaking Down the Complex” and episode #479 “Mary Karr — The Master of Memoir on Creative Process and Finding Gifts in the Suffering.”

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Bios of guests may be found at tim.blog/combo.

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#745: Rick Rubin and Mary Karr

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What was your favorite quote or lesson from this episode? Please let me know in the comments.

SHOW NOTES

[05:11] Notes about this supercombo format.
[06:15] Enter Rick Rubin.
[07:58] How Rick lost over 135 pounds in his late 30s.
[16:03] How artists can hurdle the obstacles that hinder their best work.
[19:31] Where to find world-class contemporary music.
[20:24] Approaching music production with a fan’s-eye view.
[22:53] Recommended reading.
[24:22] Helping artists break their creative blocks.
[26:54] Rick’s advice for his younger selves.
[29:06] Why practicing self-kindness isn’t just nice — it’s a necessity.
[32:01] Enter Mary Karr.
[32:25] Growing up in “The Ringworm Belt.”
[34:44] The catalyst for Mary expressing herself and publishing to the world.
[37:47] The role reading played for young Mary.
[40:31] The feeling that inspired Mary’s desire to become a poet at a young age.
[44:27] “Art should comfort the disturbed and disturb the comfortable.”
[45:17] How Mary, a high school dropout, got into college and became an A student.
[49:13] Mary’s struggle with bringing darkness with her even after leaving her traumatic past.
[53:23] The highly selective process for getting into Mary’s graduate seminar at Syracuse University.
[54:33] The first day of Mary’s class and what it illustrates about processing memoir-building memories.
[1:00:20] The value of a commonplace book and helping others find alternative perspectives.
[1:04:19] The importance and utility of prayer in Mary’s life and sobriety.
[1:17:09] The significance of Ignatian exercises in Mary’s Catholic faith and gratitude practice.
[1:23:10] Obligatory Texas talk about weaponry and hunting.
[1:26:41] The origins of Mary’s unique wordsmithing.
[1:34:24] Mary’s process of rough drafts, revision, and using past memories for storytelling.
[1:42:34] How Mary copes with the pain of dredging up memories through writing.
[1:46:09] Why Mary feels the happiest at 65 and her advice to her younger self about therapy.
[1:49:26] The most and least effective types of therapy for Mary.
[1:53:25] Mary’s solution to fear and getting through uncomfortable times.
[1:58:14] Recognizing the gifts from suffering through difficult times in retrospect.
[2:06:28] Mary’s billboard.
[2:07:35] Parting thoughts.

SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODE

Connect with Rick Rubin:

Website | Twitter | Instagram

Connect with Mary Karr:

Website | Twitter | Facebook | Instagram

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Ryan

1 year ago

Any chance we can bring back selected quotes from these?

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Paul

1 year ago

Reply to Ryan

Thanks for the question, Ryan. Currently no plans to select quotes from these combo episodes specifically, but if you click on the links to the full episodes (found in the intro at the top of the page) that comprise the combo episodes, you’ll find selected quotes near the bottom of those source pages.

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Team Tim Ferriss

Steve Fork

1 year ago

Thank you for re-releasing these conversations. Highlights!