“Those who are easily shocked should be shocked more often.”
-Mae West
Alice Little (@thealicelittle) is considered the #1 top-earning legal sex worker in the United States. She is a 4’8″ legal sex worker at Nevada’s world famous Moonlite Bunny Ranch. This episode is definitely not suitable for work (NSFW).
- Technical sex tips
- How Alice puts people at ease, including adult virgins
- BDSM and power play
- Threesome do’s and don’ts, plus the “Big KO” finishing move
- Her music playlist for getting people into the erotic zone
- Misconceptions about sex workers and the realities
- Why “The Girlfriend Experience (GFE)” is her most popular offering
- How she works with couples who want to explore new boundaries
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Scroll below for links and show notes…
Selected Links from the Episode
- Connect with Alice Little:
Website | Twitter | Instagram | YouTube
- The Moonlite Bunny Ranch
- The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho
- Eleven Minutes: A Novel (P.S.) by Paulo Coelho
- Anne Frank: The Diary of a Young Girl by Anne Frank
- Cathouse: The Series
- Pony Play Info and Resources
- ‘End of an Era’: Porn Actors Lament the Loss of Legendary San Francisco Armory by Sam Levin, The Guardian
- The Wild and Kinky World of BDSM, The Daily Dot
- Passion Lubes Natural Water-Based Lubricant, 55 Gallon Drum
- Sex and Power by Christian de la Huerta, The Huffington Post
- Fifty Shades of Grey
- Magic Wand Massager with Shibari Variable Speed Controller
- Tools of Titans: The Tactics, Routines, and Habits of Billionaires, Icons, and World-Class Performers by Timothy Ferriss
- The Girlfriend Experience by Alice Little
- BDSM in the Brothels — What You Need to Know by Alice Little
- Threesome: The Most Sought After Sexual Fantasy by Alice Little
- The Complete Kama Sutra by Vatsyayana
- What is Surrogate Partner Therapy?
- Watermark by Enya
- Lindsey Stirling by Lindsey Stirling
- 50 Best Chillstep selection Ibiza 2013 Sexy Beach House Songs by Chill Step DJ Karma
- More Men Should Learn The Difference Between Masculinity and Toxic Masculinity by Ryan Douglass, The Huffington Post
- The 4-Hour Body: An Uncommon Guide to Rapid Fat Loss, Incredible Sex and Becoming Superhuman by Timothy Ferriss
- Beautiful Agony
- Porn and the Threat to Virility by Belinda Luscombe, Time Magazine
- Fleshlight
- The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene
- Oral Sex — Best Blowjob Ever by Alice Little
- Love Ranch North
- Kit Kat Guest Ranch
- Sagebrush Ranch
- The Alien Cathouse
- The Art of the Pimp: One Man’s Search for Love, Sex, and Money by Dennis Hof
- Memoirs of a Geisha: A Novel by Arthur Golden
- What’s the Difference between a Geisha, a Maiko and a Geiko?, Kimonogeisha
- OXO Good Grips Handheld Spiralizer
- What Is Sacred Sex?
- Radical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life With the Heart of a Buddha by Tara Brach
Show Notes
- Introductions. [08:00]
- How did Alice get into rare book collecting? [09:23]
- What was Alice’s introduction to sex work? [11:09]
- Where did Alice grow up? [13:12]
- What stood out to Alice when she was watching HBO’s Cathouse series? [13:47]
- What is BDSM? [15:40]
- What does “discipline” in the context of BDSM entail? [16:36]
- How did Alice celebrate her 18th birthday? [17:44]
- How did Alice get into sex work? [18:40]
- What other careers has Alice tried? [19:52]
- Alice talks about her first appointment at the Bunny Ranch. [20:57]
- How does negotiation work? [23:22]
- What are the most important questions Alice asks prior to an appointment? [27:10]
- What guidelines or suggestions does Alice offer an unsure client (or couple)? [28:43]
- Alice describes a foreplay exercise. [29:44]
- What separates smart guys from dumb guys during a couple’s first encounter? [32:44]
- If the icebreaker doesn’t work, what’s Alice’s next step? [35:17]
- What’s an edible body massage? [35:46]
- What does Alice do to make a woman comfortable? [36:36]
- Best practices for bringing a woman to orgasm. [38:19]
- A common mistake men often make when trying to help a woman climax. [40:17]
- An alternative use for the Hitachi Magic Wand. [41:17]
- How long does a couples session typically last? [42:33]
- Most requested experiences and activities. [44:14]
- Alice says more women should try this position. [48:18]
- Guidelines for people who want to explore consensual non-monogamy. [50:45]
- Walking through an adult virgin’s first time. [53:11]
- What’s the typical demographic of a brothel’s clientele? [1:04:26]
- What kind of person gets involved in sex work? [1:07:27]
- Sex as a societal need. [1:09:39]
- What does Alice get out of her work? [1:11:26]
- What has Alice learned about herself through her work? [1:12:49]
- What has Alice learned about men? [1:14:42]
- Why does Alice think The Girlfriend Experience (GFE) is her most requested appointment? [1:19:29]
- What is the average duration of a GFE session? [1:26:34]
- How does Alice feel about pornography? [1:27:02]
- What separates a good female sex worker from a great female sex worker? [1:32:56]
- How might Alice and a coworker go above and beyond to make a threesome truly memorable? [1:38:54]
- Blowjob tips. [1:40:38]
- What kind of finish gets the most rave reviews? [1:45:00]
- What points are negotiated prior to an appointment? How discreet is billing? [1:47:49]
- Do different brothels cater to different audiences? [1:55:22]
- What still turns Alice on? [1:56:48]
- How did Alice let her mother know about her chosen vocation — and how did she take the news? [1:59:48]
- What books have Alice gifted most to others? [2:05:17]
- Recent purchase of less than a hundred dollars that has improved Alice’s quality of life. [2:09:49]
- What would Alice’s billboard say, and where would she put it? [2:12:01]
- What class would Alice teach? [2:15:26]
- Parting thoughts. [2:17:46]