In 1902, Einstein (far right) formed “The Olympia Academy” with two friends, who met to discuss books about science and philosophy. Three years later, Einstein’s Annus Mirabilis papers vaulted him to international fame.
I’m asked “How do I find a mentor?” all the time.
I’ve never had a good answer. The sad fact is this: people you want as mentors don’t want to view themselves as pro-bono life coaches. So what to do?
First, change the question. Perhaps it’s a cliche to say that when the student is ready, the teacher appears, but it’s a prescription in disguise. Here, the better question is “How do I become an ideal apprentice?”
The best treatment of apprenticeship I’ve ever found is in Mastery, the latest book by Robert Greene, author of The 48 Laws of Power. His writing on apprenticeship, mentor cultivation, and in-depth mastery of skills makes Mastery the perfect companion book to The 4-Hour Chef, in my opinion. It’s one of the few books I made time to read cover-to-cover in the last few months.
The below article explores examples of world-class apprentices and how you can emulate them. Once you do that, growth is a foregone conclusion.
Enter Robert Greene
The path to greatness is simple. It’s the path followed by everyone from Renaissance artists to the entrepreneurs of Silicon Valley. In writing my first four books, I immersed myself in the study these types of people–some of most powerful figures in history. Over the course of many hours of thinking, researching and writing on excellence–the last four years of which were dedicated to writing my newest book–I discerned an unmistakable formula for becoming the best…
Today I’d like to share the first in the journey to Mastery: how to begin an apprenticeship. Throughout history, it’s always been the way that Masters acquired their education. There are many different strategies for getting yours, but make no mistake: you cannot become great without mentors and masters to teach you the necessary skills of your chosen craft.
Part I: Value Learning Over Money
In 1718, Josiah Franklin decided to bring his twelve-year-old son Benjamin into his lucrative, family-run candle-making business in Boston as an apprentice. His idea was that after a seven-year apprenticeship and a little experience, Benjamin would take over the business. But Benjamin had other ideas. He threatened to run away to sea if his father did not give him the choice of where he could apprentice. The father had already lost another son who had run away, and so he relented. To the father’s surprise, his son chose to work in an older brother’s recently opened printing business. Such a business would mean harder work and the apprenticeship would last nine instead of seven years. Also, the printing business was notoriously fickle, and it was quite a risk to bank one’s future on it. But that was his choice, his father decided. Let him learn the hard way.
What young Benjamin had not told his father was that he was determined to become a writer. Most of the work in the shop would involve manual labor and operating machines, but every now and then he would be asked to proofread and copyedit a pamphlet or text. And there would always be new books around. Several years into the process, he discovered that some of his favorite writing came from the English newspapers the shop would reprint. He asked to be the one to oversee the printing of such articles, giving him the chance to study these texts in detail and teach himself how to imitate their style in his own work. Over the years he managed to turn this into a most efficient apprenticeship for writing, with the added benefit of having learned well the printing business.
After graduating from the Zurich Polytechnic in 1900, the twenty-one-year-old Albert Einstein found his job prospects extremely meager. He had graduated near the bottom of the class, almost certainly nullifying any chance to obtain a teaching position. Happy to be away from the university, he now planned to investigate, on his own, certain problems in physics that had haunted him for several years. It would be a self-apprenticeship in theorizing and thought experiments. But in the meantime, he would have to make a living. He had been offered a job in his father’s dynamo business in Milan as an engineer, but such work would not leave him any free time. A friend could land him a well-paid position in an insurance company, but that would stultify his brain and sap his energy for thinking.
Then, a year later, another friend mentioned a job opening up in the Swiss Patent Office in Bern. The pay was not great, the position was at the bottom, the hours were long, and the work consisted of the rather mundane task of looking over patent applications, but Einstein leaped at the chance. It was everything he wanted. His task would be to analyze the validity of patent applications, many of which involved aspects of science that interested him. The applications would be like little puzzles or thought experiments; he could try to visualize how the ideas would actually translate into inventions. Working on them would sharpen his reasoning powers. After several months on the job, he became so good at this mental game that he could finish his work in two or three hours, leaving him the rest of the day to engage in his own thought experiments. In 1905 he published his first theory of relativity, much of the work having been done while he was at his desk in the Patent Office.
From the time he was born in 1960, Freddie Roach was groomed to be a boxing champion. His father had been a professional fighter himself, and his mother a boxing judge. When Freddie was six he was promptly taken to the local gym in south Boston to begin a rigorous apprenticeship in the sport. He trained with a coach several hours a day, six days a week.
By the age of fifteen he felt like he was burned out. He made more and more excuses to avoid going to the gym. One day his mother sensed this and said to him, “Why do you fight anyway? You just get hit all the time. You can’t fight.” He was used to the constant criticism from his father and brothers, but to hear such a frank assessment from his mother had a bracing effect. Clearly, she saw his older brother as the one destined for greatness. Now Freddie determined that he would somehow prove her wrong. He returned to his training regimen with a vengeance. He discovered within himself a passion for practice and discipline. He enjoyed the sensation of getting better, the trophies that began to pile up, and, more than anything, the fact that he could now actually beat his brother. His love for the sport was rekindled.
As Freddie now showed the most promise of the brothers, his father took him to Las Vegas to help further his career. There, at the age of eighteen, he met the legendary coach Eddie Futch and began to train under him. It all looked very promising— he was chosen for the United States boxing team and began to climb up the ranks. Before long, however, he hit another wall. He would learn the most effective maneuvers from Futch and practice them to perfection, but in an actual bout it was another story. As soon as he got hit in the ring, he would revert to fighting instinctually; his emotions would get the better of him. His fights would turn into brawls over many rounds, and he would often lose.
After a few years, Futch told Roach it was time to retire. But boxing had been his whole life; retire and do what? He continued to fight and to lose, until finally he could see the writing on the wall and retired. He took a job in telemarketing and began to drink heavily. Now he hated the sport—he had given it so much and had nothing to show for his efforts. Almost in spite of himself, one day he returned to Futch’s gym to watch his friend Virgil Hill spar with a boxer about to fight for a title. Both fighters trained under Futch, but there was nobody in Hill’s corner helping him, so Freddie brought him water and gave him advice. He showed up the following day to help Hill again, and soon became a regular at Futch’s gym. He was not being paid, so he kept his telemarketing job, but something in him smelled opportunity— and he was desperate. He showed up on time and stayed later than anyone else. Knowing Futch’s techniques so well, he could teach them to all of the fighters. His responsibilities began to grow.
Working the two jobs left just enough time to sleep. It was almost unbearable, but he could withstand it because he was learning the trade for which he knew was destined. One day Virgil Hill showed him a technique he had picked up from some Cuban fighters: Instead of working with a punching bag, they mostly trained with the coach, who wore large padded mitts. Standing in the ring, the fighters half-sparred with the coach and practiced their punches. Roach tried it with Hill and his eyes lit up. It brought him back into the ring, but there was something else. Boxing, he felt, had become stale, as had its training methods. In his mind, he saw a way to adapt the mitt work for more than just punching practice. It could be a way for a trainer to devise an entire strategy in the ring and demonstrate it to his fighter in real time. It could revolutionize and revitalize the sport itself. Roach began to develop this with the stable of fighters that he now trained. He instructed them in maneuvers that were much more fluid and strategic.
Within a few years he had impressed enough young boxers with his knowledge to set up his own business. Soon he left Futch to work on his own. He quickly established a reputation for preparing his boxers better than anyone else, and within a few years he rose to become the most successful trainer of his generation.
It is a simple law of human psychology that your thoughts will tend to revolve around what you value most. If it is money, you will choose a place for your apprenticeship that offers the biggest paycheck. Inevitably, in such a place you will feel greater pressures to prove yourself worthy of such pay, often before you are really ready. You will be focused on yourself, your insecurities, the need to please and impress the right people, and not on acquiring skills. It will be too costly for you to make mistakes and learn from them, so you will develop a cautious, conservative approach. As you progress in life, you will become addicted to the fat paycheck and it will determine where you go, how you think, and what you do. Eventually, the time that was not spent on learning skills will catch up with you, and the fall will be painful.
Instead, you must value learning above everything else. This will lead you to all of the right choices. You will opt for the situation that will give you the most opportunities to learn, particularly with hands-on work. You will choose a place that has people and mentors who can inspire and teach you. A job with mediocre pay has the added benefit of training you to get by with less— a valuable life skill. If your apprenticeship is to be mostly on your own time, you will choose a place that pays the bills—perhaps one that keeps your mind sharp, but that also leaves you the time and mental space to do valuable work on your own. You must never disdain an apprenticeship with no pay. In fact, it is often the height of wisdom to find the perfect mentor and offer your services as an assistant for free. Happy to exploit your cheap and eager spirit, such mentors will often divulge more than the usual trade secrets. In the end, by valuing learning above all else, you will set the stage for your creative expansion, and the money will soon come to you.
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It’s just the first of a 6-part series on apprenticeship, provided exclusively for this blog by Robert. Here are links to the rest, all of which teach different lessons and approaches using real-world examples:
Robert’s Mastery examines the lives of historical greats like Darwin, Mozart, and Henry Ford and distills the traits that made the masters. It is an excellent complement to The 4-Hour Chef. Robert also authored the massive international bestsellers The 48 Laws of Power, Art of Seduction, The 33 Strategies of War, and The 50th Law.
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84 Replies to “The Magic of Apprenticeship — A How-To Guide”
Really interesting article. Thanks TIm.
I was referred to this book by a mentor of mine! My pre-ordered copy should arrive tomorrow 🙂
I have read all of Robert Greene’s books looking forward to reading this one as well.
Awesome Post! I’ve always valued learning but never looked at it in this particular way. Thanks and looking forward to the rest of the articles.
Hi Tim, I have been testing my new idea on this post and didn’t realize the send emails feature was turned on. Sorry if you received some emails from my system.
Great read! Thanks Tim & Robert.
Can’t wait till I get around to reading the other parts in this series.
I was planning on buying myself two books this holiday season, I kid you not- one it 4HC and the other was Mastery. Amazing timing, and both have a common theme of mastery. I’ll be watching you on CreativeLive Wednesday, one of my friends is going to be attending.
Love this post and can’t wait to read the others. Your posts keep me going when I get discouraged, tired and just lack patience to get my 4hww lifestyle up and running. Thanks for all your inspiration. It is much appreciated!
Very cool, Tim! Interesting that you mention that it would be the perfect companion to 4HC, I’ve thought that this whole year and have been counting the days to the release of both. Exciting week for you, I wish you a stress free week en route to a banner accomplishment 🙂
“If it is money, you will choose a place for your apprenticeship that offers the biggest paycheck. Inevitably, in such a place you will feel greater pressures to prove yourself worthy of such pay, often before you are really ready. You will be focused on yourself, your insecurities, the need to please and impress the right people, and not on acquiring skills. It will be too costly for you to make mistakes and learn from them, so you will develop a cautious, conservative approach. As you progress in life, you will become addicted to the fat paycheck and it will determine where you go, how you think, and what you do. Eventually, the time that was not spent on learning skills will catch up with you, and the fall will be painful.”
What a great post! Love it and I’m reading all six parts. I think I’m going through the right path by working in a small innovation consulting firm instead of a big corporation with a big check as all my peers do.
your blog = my apprenticeship
Great stuff. I’ve read three of Greene’s other books (and pre-ordered this one). I always enjoyed reading history, but at the same time had a nagging sense that I wasn’t using time to a productive end. Greene has solved that.
Wow. Robert, you are an amazing writer. You really captured my attention. As for the article, it’s inspirational, and it offers a unique viewpoint. Instead of asking for mentors, find out how you can become a great learner. What else is funny is that in some instances, we value learning over money, but in others, we don’t. We take out thousands of dollars of loans to go to college with no guarantees. But we are hesitant to take an opportunity to learn under some of the best people in the world for any given subject if we have to work for free.
Going to check out your new book!
You are brilliant beyond your years. I chose money over an apprenticeship – and everything you described happened. Great advise – I hope your readers appreciate how correct and important this information is.
Awesome post! I just graduated from TechStars Seattle last week and the mentors made the program worthwhile. The 10 weeks felt somewhat like an apprenticeship. They gave up their time without asking for anything in return and it made all the difference in the world…
Excellent post TIm. Looking forward to the other 5 posts.
BTW I just pre-ordered the 4HC…ill look into Mastery.
I actually pre-ordered this book last week.
Really looking forward to it after his previous books.
I have guys ask me all the time how I got to where I am, 1 year after reading The Game= working for Neil Strauss- now running my own company.
I’ve been trying to break down how I did this, and how I did it before with tactical training- my old job.
Hoping to understand this process deeper, so I can share, but really so I can level up even more.
Is 4HC already released in Canada? Saw it on the shelves in 2 different bookstores today. Bought it and am already 25% through the book, it delivers on so many levels much like the 4HB.
I just listened to a BlogcastFM podcast with Robert Greene – so this article was perfect timing. I’ll have to read Mastery now, and of course the 4 Hour Chef, soon! Thanks Tim!
I own book by both Tim and Robert. And I have their next books pre-ordered on Amazon. Thanks to you both for giving so much to your fans!
I’m surprised to see a guest post from Robert Greene on this blog. RG espouses that in the mastery of anything worthwhile, drudgery is inescapable. However, one of the main themes of the 4H-series is you can avoid the drudgery and still achieve mastery (relative to the audience you want reach).
You continue to be an amazing guide Tim.
Since falling “victim” to the beautiful spine of the 4HWW years ago you have been a constant source of valuable insight. Your blog has offered comfort, knowledge, and inspiration that has made it a true resource to me. Harmful thought processes that used to leave me drained in the presence of some opposition have been greatly diminished due to more stoic thinking. Introductions to likes of Ryan Holiday, Michael Ellsberg, Paulo Coelho, and others have helped open my mind to the plethora of opportunities that are out there to achieve greatness. I have been inspired to live a healthier life as well, learning the complexities of food and the radical effects that they can have on our physical and mental state. Robert’s 48 Law of Power packed so much knowledge and entertainment into one book. The examples of presidents, gangstas, emperors, and con artists all in one book led to some very interesting reading. Who knew history could be this fun! I can’t wait to dive into The Four Hour Chef and Mastery. Thanks again for being an amazing mentor, teacher, and companion to myself and others who have benefited from things that we continue to learn on this journey.
you wrote another article which is completely different:
Have you switched attitude or what else?
Maybe you have reached to this kind of conclusion:
“A master in any art avoids what is too much and what is too little; they search for the mean and choose it.” — Aristotle
Let us know if you feel like!!
Fab, greetings from Italy.
I have been doing this with a strength coach here and Oregon, and this is absolutely right on the money. You can learn a ton more from a mentor. And, you have to have something to offer in return. Once I got connected with my mentor, my goal was to be the best intern he had every had. It’s been gold and has bolstered my business big time! Thanks for sharing. That was awesome!
Ha! I love the link to Charlie Hoehn’s blog post on the words “exploit your cheap and eager spirit”. I also can’t believe how much content is in this post – VI parts!
This was an excellent article. Pitched just right, it kept me reading until the very end and I am looking forward to reading the other parts. Thanks for sharing.
I think this article is a situation where we look at the grass on the other side being greener.
Whats works well is good, until fundamentals change. They will always change. The key maybe is to know when to quit and start again. But above all, showing up for every task works wonders.
Thanks so much for sharing. Your article is another prove that our western education system is so in need of a revolution. Upfront teaching and compliance to standardized tests have not led to mastery. But creativity in apprenticeship has!
There is no better way to learn that through example and that includes the personal stories you chose here Robert, to portray what your article suggests.
As a Professional Business & Life Coach (strategist) I’ve often had people expect a ‘free session’ at a party, social event or other but you need to ‘think’ in a particular way and focus 100% on your client when coaching and this simply isn’t realistic or possible at those times.
My best teachers (as I love to say) were the people I worked with and those who I trained.
I am still the apprentice in those situations, where I continue to value and enjoy learning from interacting with people and their problems, whether that’s in their business or personal life.
Other apprenticeships are as another reader mentioned above. In reading this blog or spending time in forums and groups. I am a product creator aswell these day and I had to become an apprentice in how to come up with, create and then of course, market and sell digital products.
The experience meant that where I had previously been awarded ‘expert’ status I was starting again as a novice.
I believe to become the best teacher you can be in life you have to be comfortable enough to sometimes consider yourself an apprentice in other areas in order to continue to learn and grow
Just a quick typo correction: In the first paragraph of “Enter Robert Greene”: “I discerned an unmistakable formula for *becomING the best…”
Great advice in there!
Awsome read. Thanks a lot for sharing this 🙂
Not having a good way to find a mentor is exactly the inspiration behind my latest muse project. After three months or so, it is just now being finished up. I hope it is not only useful, but that it will eventually be profitable and I can use most of the money it makes to fund education. Thanks for the excellent article!
Just fantastic! Thank you SO much for these!
Awesome, I can’t wait to see what I can use in this series!
Einstein is invading my reality tunnel, XYZ baby!
Hey Tim, I just wanted to say that reading the 4 hour body it completely changed how I dealt with life as a health nut and personal trainer. I changed my whole philosophy, put on healthy and great gains on your advice, and helped my clients better than ever. It even inspired me to do a similar thing with my own blog in where I try to just help them out with health advice and workout tips. I just wanted to say thanks, it was a great book and your blog just keeps inspiring me and helping me be a better me. Thank you
One of your best posts. I loved 48 Laws and am pleased to learn about Mastery. I have instinctually followed learning for four decades and money has not followed. I try to cut and prune, slice and devise, ignore naysayers, spread my wings, sweep up wisdom’s air and fold it in on my field as a designer, before spreading wings once more. The money will come, I choose to believe, but as yet it’s a dream.
So glad to see more genius come out of the ferriss stable.
As an Iowan and a past machinist apprentice these last 2 emails are fantastic to me.
Apprenticeships are so important, hence my recent 5 year real estate apprenticeship. Persistence is key.
As a senior college student stuck in a service industry job (waitressing) this article is super helpful as I think about my future prospects…. thanks for pointing towards Greene’s direction!
Great series Tim and Robert. Looking forward to the books! Can you distinguish between the approach suggested in part 5 versus sheer aimlessness? I think a lot of us are very curious people and I know in my own experience it’s created a lot of barriers when organizations and individuals seem so much more interested in ‘specialists’. Obviously it worked for Paul Graham… does it just take faith? Is hope a strategy now?
It’s frustrating pouring yourself in many different skills while the lazier and less qualified fall into what you’ve been working for.
Love your stuff – thanks for everything!
Well I clearly have the failing thing down – I meant part 6. Look at me multi-tasking over here.
Hi Tim, your emails are very interesting but too long for this fast pace world. Any chance you could include a summary at the beginning of each article?
Hi Tim and Robert,
I know another Tim, Tim C. who instead of seeking out a mentor took the time to get employed in a large whole foods store so he could learn everything he needed to open his own business. As a result he opened his own natural foods business after receiving training he was paid to participate in. Very smart move.
Tim reminds me to learn you have to be creative to find the right opportunities and patient as you progress.
Patience is part of the pathway to success.
Tim, thank you for sharing this post, I ordered the book from Amazon this evening. I liked what it says in your post and think it would be a good companion for The 4-Hour Chef, which I am enjoying very much by the way. I have read the 4-Hour Work Week probably 3-4 times now and have it both in print and on my Nook. Thank you for doing what you do as I get something new out of your books everytime I open them, I am giving The 4-Hour Chef as a gift to two friends this Christmas, I hope they do not read your blog yet or I just blew it. Donna in Vegas
This is the book I always thought needed to be written. Cannot wait to read it. Thanks, Tim for the heads up. Hope you’re enjoying life! Sorry, for posting this on the wrong post at first! 😉
Tim: thank you! This has now gone out to all the men and women I mentor around the globe. Mentoring is both my passion and my calling. Humbled, am I, as a 70yo man, to have the deep privilege of seeing extraordinary developing leaders released, set free, growing beyond what they could imaging, tackling life issues that truly are making a difference. It is men like you who encourage me forward. What a privilege to encourage others to read your thoughts and those of Mr. Green. Keep ’em coming. Again…thank you!!!
Robert, I loved the Art of Seduction, 48 Laws is next on my list, and just got 3 copies of Mastery for some friends and myself.
Tim, thanks for posting all this to your blog! Most def going to reread and can’t wait to go through the rest of the series.
I fucking love this apprenticeship and learn-by-doing model for education.
I just started interning (apprenticing?) at a startup/nonprofit that is creating young founders and tech badasses by putting them in apprenticeships with startup founders for 2 years, while all living together in NYC. Our first class of 11 is already a few months in.
Big dream: instead of top business school applicants going to Harvard, they would intern or apprentice at Facebook, Apple, Google, or young startups and that would be their business education.
Would love to talk more about this if you’re interested.
Question Tim, how much mentor’s influence can be acquired through educational videos, books, audios as opposed to being in physical or at least mental (communicating 1 on 1 through a phone call or Skype) proximity?
There is so much more to psychologically gain through osmosis like receiving direct answers to questions, seeing the way a mentor handles challenges firsthand and just general mojo/juju absorption.
If you don’t have the option of close proximity how can you raise the influential power of a mentor’s educational material?
I’m not exactly sure what the example of Einstein is supposed to show.
In this description Einstein was successful without having a mentor. Oftentimes mentors are helpful but Einstein did create his own learning enviroment without a mentor.
There should be little talk of mastery or expertise whether in Greene’s book-Mastery or Ferris’ book-4HC, without a discussion on the work of Anders Ericsson. I live in NYC and was able to get advanced copies of both books from Strand Books. I have read them both and both books completely dismiss the work of the preeminent scholar on this subject-Ericsson.
Tim’s method for accelerated learning implicitly applies the principles of deliberate practise (Ericsson’s thesis).
Just because he wasn’t mentioned (and really, an appendix and bibliography would fill another book) doesn’t mean his work was dismissed.
Have you read the 4HC? Have you read Ericsson? It would seem that you have not because there are fundamental contradictions in the two methods. If you have not, I won’t even go into the details but in any case to not mention Ericsson would be similar to teaching you how to hack this new form of mathematics called “calculus” without giving credit to Newton. Even Newton said “…if I have seen further, it is because I have stood on the shoulders of Giants.” If Newton-the greatest mind in the last 500 years-can give credit where credit is due, shouldn’t Ferris? To the astute thinker-there might seem be a contradiction-if Ferris’ methods differ from Ericsson’s, then why would he give credit to Ericsson? The reason why is that Ericsson is the scientist credited with isolating the methods that lead to Expertise and Mastery. From Chess, Music, Sports, Medicine…any domain, deliberate practice is the mechanism whereby humans acquire consistently superior performance. Ferris should either credit Ericsson and extend his methodology or explain why despite Ericcson’s methods, his methods are effective. Either way, Ferris’ methods (or anyone’s) should be explained vis a vis the proof established by Ericsson. Ferris methods are more “hacks” that take you from the conscious stage of skill acquisition to the automatic stage of skill acquisition faster-which has a place. If you have to get good (in the top 25 %) of people attempting to acquire the skill, then getting there faster will help. But to go from the top 25% to the top 5% or even top 2% is much, much harder and does require at least 5000 hours. At that level you cannot go around hardship, you have to go through it.
The thing with Greene-is that his survey of mastery is based on his assessment of historical accounts of eminent people. And does not clearly establish the cause of mastery. His material is almost historical fiction because he attempts to describe what Einstein, Darwin and others where thinking at the time which obviously he could not have known. Greene is more self help than a blueprint to becoming a master. In the case of Ferris-he should attempt to compete in a domain that has clearly established standards such as chess, memory competitions, weightlifting, music, etc. Using his methods for 6 months to a year he should try to compete against someone who has been practicing deliberately for 5-10 years and see if there are any differences-much suspicion is that there would be striking differences.
“In the case of Ferris-he should attempt to compete in a domain that has clearly established standards such as chess, memory competitions, weightlifting, music, etc. Using his methods for 6 months to a year he should try to compete against someone who has been practicing deliberately for 5-10 years and see if there are any differences-much suspicion is that there would be striking differences.”
Sooooo good. It’s crazy to see how Einstein dealt with a common problem many students, especially business students like myself, are faced with today:
Do you follow your interests at the risk of not being able to pay your bills and stress out from month to month, or do you follow a relatively well walked path with a consistent paycheck and hope to have your fun once you’re “stable?”
So many times our parents tell us, “listen, you can be pie in the sky and hope you become the one out of 1000’s who get lucky enough to have your idea get popular, or you can pay your bills, it’s that simple.”
Mastery just arrived in the mail! I skipped to the chapter on Emotional Intelligence and read it right away. I’ve looked for books on the subject but never been satisfied with the results, even from Daniel Goleman. This chapter hits the spot, and contains more practical application than a whole book on the subject.
This has turned up at just the right moment, helping me with a tough decision.
In addition, since I’m “a learning guy” it’s especially nice.
ps mentioned your work many times; last time was here:
You have been a real inspiration for several years. Well done.
I’m a 45 year old doctor who practiced Family Medicine for 12 years. I got very burnt out after feeling the crunch of southern California managed care reimbursements and government interventions affecting my patient interactions and plummeting my bottom line. I went to an American Academy of Family Practice annual conference in 2005 for my continuing medical education and attended a seminar addressing the future of Family Medicine. After I heard what the pundits of our organization stated we needed to do as a specialty to remain “relevant” , I realized that I just couldn’t keep doing this anymore. I listened to the audio book, “The Four-Hour Work Week”,
and it became my bible. I got into Aesthetic Medicine temporarily but found it was not really practicing medicine.
I’m writing to you now because this recent blog you posted about Apprenticeship is essentially what I had to do to find a better solution for myself. I discovered a new but rising specialty in medicine called Phlebology, which focuses on treating people with leg pain resulting from varicose vein disease. There are no residencies that teach this. I took a huge pay cut, and trained with a world expert who took me on. I worked for her for free, and she taught me the trade. It took two years, and my family and I barely got by, but I now work in the specialty in a small practice, I earn 5 times more money than I did as a family doctor, I work 4.5 days a week (I’ll get to 4 hours a week eventually!), no nights, no weekends, no night call. I’m a gazillion times happier, and so is my family now that I can be home to spend time with them. Being an apprentice is a difficult period, but it’s worth it. Thanks for solidifiying that in your blog.
I enjoyed this series–thanks for posting. I especially liked Part III – revert to a feeling of inferiority. I think this can be applied to many areas of life, especially relationships, where inferiority, or at least vulnerability, is known as a key trait for building true intimacy. Very similar to pride & humility–a traditional vice & virtue pair that seems backwards in today’s society as people are encouraged to be proud of who they are and ultimately “better” than someone else. A true path towards selfishness. What a shame.
FYI, the audiobook version of “Mastery” is available on iTunes.
I could never get through more than 1 book per month until I started audiobooks. Now it’s 2-3 books per WEEK.
If reading isn’t your thing, try shifting the medium to audio. You’d be surprised how much easier information is to consume that way.
Do you consider this a form of Mentorship? I sure do. It is interesting how reading, and now watching videos and media clips, and serve as a mentor. What it lacks is an ability to ask questions that pertain to our unique circumstance. The internet provides us with a chance to ask questions, and hopefully get some useful feedback, but it does not guarantee an answer.
Also I was wondering how you feel about a Mastermind group acting as an apprenticeship? I love your picture of Einstein’s Mastermind group to begin the article. How can we leverage these groups to learn and help us on our journey?
You know what my only mentors are books on loan from my local library such as Screw It, Just Do It by Richard Branson. But truth be told, it doesn’t really help and I’m just stuck. I’ve recently joined mixergy.com and I’ve found that to be quite helpful but so far as a real-life mentor I don’t have one.
I work for a large supermarket and I feel like a cog in the machine. I’m just itching to start a small business start-up and finally take responsibility for my future and change my life and my wife’s as well.
Hi Tim, thanks for the
I made you a video on You-Tube, I really hope you can take 6 mins to listen to me. 🙂
PS: Your attitude towards life is so amazing I would say it’s as inspiring as your business plan. Thanks again! 🙂
You are quick, Tim. I’ve been taking my time with the book — I’m only half way through. I love Greene’s work; it truly is a breath of fresh air.
Great first article – now I need time to read through the series 🙂
Excellent article, Tim! Thank you! This is so true: you cannot become great without mentors and masters to teach you the necessary skills of your chosen craft.
Love Love Love! I’m constantly preaching about picking a job based on what you have to gain, knowledge & skill wise instead of money. If your there to learn you won’t be in an entry level job for long.
I work for myself now but in the past the longest it took me to get promoted was 3 months and the shortest 1 day.
“Work to Learn, not to earn.”
I believe I read this quote in “Rich Dad, Poor Dad”, but it’s made a huge difference on my work experience & the time it takes for me to learn something. And it fits exactly what this article is trying to state…
Will definitely check out Mastery, thanks for the tip!
Just finished reading Mastery! Great book, full of insights and pathways to attaining greatness… Interesting how it is ambition, not talent, that brings about our greatest achievements!
So true. Valuing learning over just making more money will always pay off over time. Figure out what you enjoy doing and then put yourself into a situation where you can learn about it.
Another important principle is that you should strive to excel at what you do, not just to be competent.
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Hey Tim! I am a big fan of your books and life philosophy. Right now I’m in the middle of the Greene’s Mastery and in fact just finished reading the chapter on apprenticeship.
However, when I was reading it I felt that it went against what you preached in 4HR Workweek since Greene advocates submitting to reality, while you argue that reality is negotiable. And so I was a little surprised that you give it a praise here (even though it’s for a different aspect)
So can you (of maybe anyone reading this comment 🙂 ) please tell me how would you combine these two seemingly opposite approaches together? Thank you in advance.
Holla from Moscow 🙂
Very captivating and thought provoking, a perfect fertilizer for the mind before hitting pajamas. The last paragraph is legendary btw. Thanks
This could not have come to my eyes at a more perfect time. I have been a life long learner and now and delving into an new business. Thanks Tim, Robert and Company!
I’m currently reading the book, on See People as They are: Social Intelligence. Love the story of Benjamin Franklin, how he learned his lessons and decided to spend more time studying human behavior.
I’ve read Mastery and it is a critical centerpiece of my library. Many thanks!
Wow. I heard your interview with Tony Robbins this morning, and at the end of it I asked myself this very question. Next thing I know, you post about it. Keep on growing and sharing! Adelante!
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Everything about this post is what I have been studying the last few months. Your posts are very well structured and flow so smoothly. My beliefs are consistent with your writings, so I feel I’m on the right track. Thanks for posting!
As I embark to grad school 20 years after my undergrad experience, this resonates. Great stuff!
Great points on learning to master any skill. I’d add an often overlooked step. Sometimes the way we make a decision (ie. This action was a success) is actually detrimental to the outcome we seek. I mean we think the outcome will move us toward the goal when infact it’s not but our belief system tells us it will.
We need a new belief installed, a new way of making the decision.
An example to illustrate this.
Lets say I’m an Internet Marketer and created a funnel that turned a reasonable profit, it just took a lot of time and stress.
If my only decision was it made a good profit so I should repeat it then I would possibly die rich early. An alternative decision process might ask was it a profit, did I enjoy the process, could the stress be eliminated, do I have to spend so much time.
This I learnt from my mentor Paul Counsel, WA, Oz
First season of my podcast is all about The 48 Laws of Power, one of the major tools I used to learn how to human.
Thank you for a great article. I have Robert’s book, which I found very inspirational.